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You are able to practice active listening during any dialog, When you master the skills required. But it might feel awkward and stilted to use it in discourse whenyou're talking about what you did at work or how the weather is.
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Do not Play Games Communication inside this phase means communicating. It doesn't mean playing with games and sitting on a text for a day or one hour before reacting. While abiding by the rules that are relationship sounds appealing, don't do it. Do not waste your time.
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